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Love can trigger intense feelings of jealousy and possessiveness from "summary" of On Romantic Love by Berit Brogaard

Love, that intoxicating emotion that fills our hearts with warmth and our minds with visions of eternal bliss, is not immune to darker impulses. In fact, it can be a breeding ground for jealousy and possessiveness, emotions that can erupt like a volcano and consume everything in their path. When we love someone deeply, we become vulnerable, laying bare our innermost thoughts and feelings for them to see. This vulnerability can be both beautiful and terrifying, as it opens us up to the possibility of being hurt or betrayed. Jealousy, that green-eyed monster that lurks within us all, can rear its ugly head when we feel threatened by a real or perceived rival for our beloved's affection. It can manifest in various ways, from subtle hints of suspicion to outright accusations and confrontations. Our minds become consumed with thoughts of our partner being unfaithful, and we may go to great lengths to monitor their every move, seeking reassurance that we are the only one in their heart. Possessiveness, on the other hand, stems from a desire to control and dominate our partner, to make them exclusively ours. We may feel a sense of ownership over them, viewing them as an extension of ourselves rather than a separate individual with their own thoughts and feelings. This possessiveness can lead to controlling behavior, such as isolating our partner from friends and family or constantly checking up on them to ensure they are where they say they are. These intense feelings of jealousy and possessiveness can be a double-edged sword, acting as a testament to the depth of our love while also threatening to destroy it. They can stem from insecurities within ourselves, such as a fear of abandonment or a lack of self-worth, which we project onto our partner. It is crucial to address these underlying issues and communicate openly and honestly with our partner to build trust and strengthen the bond between us. In the end, it is important to remember that love is not about possessing or controlling another person but about cherishing and respecting them as an equal partner in a relationship. By recognizing and addressing our feelings of jealousy and possessiveness, we can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling love that is built on trust, mutual respect, and open communication.
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    On Romantic Love

    Berit Brogaard

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