Practice selfcompassion when facing distractions from "summary" of Indistractable by Nir Eyal,Julie Li-Eyal
Facing distractions can be a challenging experience for many of us. When we find ourselves pulled away from our intended tasks, it's easy to become frustrated and critical of ourselves. We may berate ourselves for not being focused enough or disciplined enough to stay on track. However, this negative self-talk only serves to make matters worse. Instead of being hard on ourselves when faced with distractions, we can choose to practice self-compassion. Self-compassion involves treating ourselves with kindness and understanding, especially in moments when we are struggling. By showing ourselves compassion, we can break free from the cycle of self-criticism and judgment that often accompanies distractions.
When we approach distractions with self-compassion, we can acknowledge that it is a natural part of the human experience to feel pulled off course at times. We can recognize that we are not alone in our struggles and that everyone faces distractions from time to time. By accepting this reality, we can release ourselves from the guilt and shame that often accompany distractions.
Self-compassion allows us to view distractions with a sense of curiosity and openness rather than judgment and condemnation. Instead of viewing distractions as a sign of personal failure, we can see them as opportunities for growth and learning. By approaching distractions with a mindset of self-compassion, we can cultivate a greater sense of resilience and inner strength.
When we practice self-compassion in the face of distractions, we can respond to them with patience and understanding. We can gently guide ourselves back to our intended tasks without resorting to harsh self-criticism. By treating ourselves with kindness and compassion, we can create a more positive and nurturing inner dialogue that supports our efforts to stay focused and present.
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