Show genuine interest in their interests from "summary" of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we take the time to show genuine interest in our teens' interests, we are sending them a powerful message. We are telling them that we value what they value, that we care about what matters to them. This simple act of demonstrating curiosity about their passions can strengthen our connection with them and deepen our bond. By showing interest in their interests, we are also opening up a door for communication. When we ask our teens about their hobbies, their favorite music, their friends, we are giving them the opportunity to share a piece of themselves with us. This can lead to more meaningful conversations and a better understanding of who they are. F...Similar Posts
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