Focus on solutions rather than blame from "summary" of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When faced with a problem involving your teen, it can be easy to fall into the trap of assigning blame. Finger-pointing may seem like the natural response, especially when emotions are running high. However, this approach rarely leads to productive solutions. Instead of focusing on who is at fault, it is more helpful to shift your attention to finding a way to address the issue at hand. By directing your energy towards seeking solutions, you can create a more constructive and collaborative environment for problem-solving. When blame is eliminated from the equation, both you and your teen can work together towards a resolution without the distraction of defensiveness or resentment. When you adopt a...
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