Use positive language from "summary" of How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids by Carla Naumburg

Using positive language is a powerful tool in communicating with your children. Instead of focusing on what you don't want your child to do, try framing your requests in a positive way. For example, instead of saying, "Don't run in the house," you could say, "Please walk inside." This simple shift in language can make a big difference in how your child receives your message. Positive language helps to create a more supportive and encouraging environment for your child. When you use positive language, you are showing your child that you believe in their ability to make good choices. This can boost their self-esteem and confidence, leading to better behavior overall. It's important to be mindful of the words you use when speaking to your child. Negative language can be discouraging and may lead to power struggles or meltdowns. By choosing your words carefully and using positive language, you can help to prevent conflicts and create a more peaceful home environment. Positive language can also help to foster a stronger bond between you and your child. When you communicate in a positive and respectful manner, your child is more likely to feel understood and valued. This can strengthen your relationship and build trust between you and your child. Remember that using positive language is a skill that takes practice. It may not come naturally at first, but with time and effort, you can develop the habit of speaking in a more positive way. Be patient with yourself and your child as you work on using positive language, and remember that small changes in your communication can lead to big improvements in your relationship.

How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids

Carla Naumburg

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