Practice mindfulness from "summary" of How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids by Carla Naumburg
Mindfulness is a concept that gets thrown around a lot these days, but what does it really mean? At its core, mindfulness is about paying attention on purpose and without judgment. It's about being present in the moment, fully engaged with whatever is happening right here and now. This can be a challenge, especially when you're knee-deep in a meltdown or tantrum, but it is possible.
One way to practice mindfulness is to simply notice what is happening in the present moment. This could be as simple as noticing your breath, the sounds around you, or the sensations in your body. By tuning into your immediate experience, you can bring yourself back to the present moment and out of the cycle of reactivity.
Another key aspect of mindfulness is cultivating an attitude of curiosity and openness. Rather than reacting automatically to a situation, try approaching it with a sense of wonder and exploration. This can help you see things from a fresh perspective and respond more skillfully.
Mindfulness also involves acceptance of the present moment as it is, without trying to change it or make it different. This doesn't mean you have to like or approve of what is happening, but rather that you can acknowledge it with compassion and understanding.
Finally, mindfulness is about cultivating a sense of kindness and compassion towards yourself and others. This means being gentle with yourself when you make mistakes or lose your cool, and extending that same kindness to your children when they are struggling.
By practicing mindfulness, you can learn to respond to your children with more patience, empathy, and understanding. It takes time and practice, but the benefits are well worth the effort.
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