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Allow children to experience failure and setbacks in order to grow stronger from "summary" of How to Raise an Adult by Julie Lythcott-Haims

As parents, we are often tempted to shield our children from failure and setbacks. We want to protect them from disappointment and ensure they only experience success. However, this approach can hinder their growth and development. When we constantly intervene to prevent our children from facing challenges, we rob them of the opportunity to learn resilience and problem-solving skills. Failure is a natural part of life, and children need to experience it in order to build strength and character. When children are allowed to face setbacks, they learn important lessons about perseverance and the value of hard work. These experiences help them develop a growth mindset, enabling them to see failures as opportunities for growth rather than sources of shame. By allowing our children to experience failure, we teach them to bounce back from adversity and develop coping strategies for future challenges. When children are sheltered from failure, they may struggle to cope with setbacks later in life. It is essential for children to learn how to navigate failure in a healthy way, so they can grow into resilient and self-reliant adults.
  1. Our role is not to shield our children from failure, but to support them as they learn to overcome obstacles. By providing guidance and encouragement, we can help our children build the skills they need to face challenges with confidence and resilience. Ultimately, allowing children to experience failure is a crucial aspect of raising independent and capable adults.
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How to Raise an Adult

Julie Lythcott-Haims

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