Plan quality time together from "summary" of How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids by Jancee Dunn
One thing that can help is to plan quality time together. I know, I know, easier said than done. But at least it’s a starting point. I can already hear you groaning, “But where will we find the time?” I get it. You’re both busy trying to juggle work, parenting, and keeping the house from looking like a scene from Hoarders. But here’s the thing: you need to make time for each other. It doesn’t have to be a week-long vacation in Hawaii. It can be as simple as a walk around the block after dinner or a quick coffee date during your lunch break. The key is to prioritize your relationship. I know the kids are your number one priority right now, but remember, they won’t be living with you forever. Your partner, on the other hand, will (hopefully) be around for the long haul. So, it’s important to nurture that relationship. Think of it as an investment in your future happiness. Plus, spending quality time together can help you remember why you fell in love in the first place. It’s easy to forget that when you’re knee-deep in dirty diapers and sleepless nights. When you do spend time together, try to be present. Put away your phone, turn off the TV, and really focus on each other. Ask about your partner’s day, listen to their thoughts and feelings, share your own. Communication is key in any relationship, and making time for each other is a great way to strengthen that bond. And remember, quality time doesn’t have to be all serious and intense. It can be fun and lighthearted too. Go on a date night, play a board game, watch a funny movie together. The important thing is that you’re connecting and enjoying each other’s company. So, next time you find yourself feeling frustrated with your partner, take a step back and think about when you last spent quality time together. If it’s been a while, make a plan to change that. It may not solve all your problems, but it’s a good place to start. Trust me, a little quality time can go a long way in keeping the love alive.
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