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We need to create a strong bond with our children from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
The foundation of our relationship with our children is the bond we share with them. This bond is not just important, it is crucial. It is what keeps them close to us, connected to us, and willing to listen to us. Without a strong bond, we cannot effectively guide, teach, or influence our children. We might have all the rules, consequences, and rewards in place, but without a strong bond, they will not have the desired impact. Building and maintaining this bond requires time, effort, and intentionality. It is not something that happens automatically or effortlessly. It requires us to be present, attentive, and responsive to our children's needs and emotions. We need to be there for them, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. We need to be attuned to their feelings, thoughts, and experiences. We need to show them that we care about them, that we are interested in them, and that we love them unconditionally. One of the key ways to strengthen the bond with our children is through attachment. Attachment is the deep emotional connection that forms between a parent and a child. It is what makes a child feel safe, secure, and loved. It is what gives them the confidence to explore the world, take risks, and grow into independent individuals. Attachment is nurtured through warmth, responsiveness, and consistency. It is built through eye contact, physical touch, and emotional connection. Another important aspect of building a strong bond with our children is communication. Communication is not just about talking to them, but also about listening to them. It is about being open, honest, and transparent with them. It is about creating a safe space for them to express themselves, share their feelings, and ask for help. Communication is a two-way street that requires us to be patient, empathetic, and understanding. In order to create a strong bond with our children, we also need to prioritize our relationship with them. We need to make them our top priority, above work, social commitments, and personal pursuits. We need to spend quality time with them, engage in meaningful activities with them, and create lasting memories with them. We need to show them that they matter to us, that they are valued, and that they are loved unconditionally.- The bond we share with our children is the foundation of their well-being, growth, and development. It is what gives them the strength, resilience, and confidence to navigate the challenges of life. It
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