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Children need to feel valued and supported by their parents from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
Children need to feel valued and supported by their parents. This is a fundamental truth that underpins the parent-child relationship. When children feel valued, they develop a sense of self-worth and confidence that is crucial for their emotional well-being. This feeling of value is not something that can be obtained from external sources – it needs to come from within, and the primary source of this validation is their parents. From the moment a child is born, they are looking to their parents for cues on how to navigate the world. They seek approval, validation, and support in everything they do. When parents provide this support consistently and unconditionally, children learn to trust in their own abilities and judgment. They feel secure in the knowledge that their parents will be there for them no matter what. On the other hand, when children do not feel valued by their parents, they may seek validation elsewhere, leading to a host of potential problems. They may turn to their peers for approval, or seek out attention in negative ways. This can lead to a host of issues, including low self-esteem, behavioral problems, and difficulties forming healthy relationships. Parents play a crucial role in shaping their child's sense of self-worth. By providing love, support, and encouragement, parents can help their children develop a strong sense of self that will serve them well throughout their lives. It is important for parents to show their children that they are valued not just for their achievements, but for who they are as individuals.- It can be easy for parents to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. However, it is important for parents to take the time to connect with their children on a deep emotional level. By showing their children that they are valued and supported, parents can help them develop the confidence and resilience they need to navigate the challenges of growing up. Ultimately, children who feel valued and supported by their parents are better equipped to face the world with a strong sense of self-worth and a belief in their own abilities.
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