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Building attachment with our children is crucial from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
Attachment with our children is not just important, it is crucial. It is the foundation upon which all other aspects of our relationship with them are built. Without a strong attachment, our children will not feel secure or connected to us. They will not trust us or look to us for guidance. They will seek out attachment with peers instead, which can lead to all sorts of problems. Building attachment with our children requires time, effort, and intention. It means being present and available to them, both physically and emotionally. It means listening to them, validating their feelings, and responding to their needs. It means showing them love and affection, setting boundaries and limits, and providing them with a sense of security and stability. When we have a strong attachment with our children, they will be more likely to lis...
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