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Overcoming past traumas can improve relationship dynamics from "summary" of Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson

When we carry past traumas with us into our present relationships, they can cast a shadow over our connections with those we love. These unresolved wounds can cause us to react in ways that are defensive, distant, or even hostile towards our partners. We may find ourselves pushing our loved ones away, unable to trust or fully open up to them. In doing so, we create barriers that prevent us from truly connecting with our partners on a deep emotional level. However, by facing our past traumas and working through them with our partners, we can begin to heal old wounds and create a stronger, more secure bond. When we open up about our past hurts and allow ourselves to be vulnerable with our partners, we invite them to respond with empathy and understanding. This shared emotional experience can foster a sense of closeness and intimacy that allows both partners to feel seen, heard, and supported. In...
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    Hold Me Tight

    Dr. Sue Johnson

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