Set consequences ahead of time for specific misbehaviors from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
To effectively manage your child's behavior, it's crucial to set consequences ahead of time for specific misbehaviors. This means clearly outlining what will happen if a certain rule is broken or if a particular boundary is crossed. By doing this, you eliminate any ambiguity and ensure that both you and your child are on the same page when it comes to discipline. One of the key benefits of setting consequences ahead of time is that it removes the emotion from the equation. Instead of reacting in the heat of the moment, you can calmly enforce the predetermined consequence, knowing that it was agreed upon in advance. This helps you maintain consistency in your parenting approach and avoid making decisions based on your mood or frustration level. In addition, setting consequences ahead of time allows your child to understand the direct correlation between their actions and the resulting outcome. When consequences are clear an...
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