Encourage positive behavior with rewards and praise from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
To get good behavior from your child, you want to look for it and then praise it. When you see your child doing something right, whether it's sharing a toy, helping a sibling, or finishing their homework without being asked, make sure you acknowledge it with positive reinforcement. This can be as simple as saying, "I noticed how helpful you were today, and I'm proud of you for that." By praising their positive actions, you are encouraging them to continue behaving in the same way. In addition to verbal praise, you can also use rewards to reinforce positive behavior. Rewards can be effective in motivating your child to keep up the good work. For example, if your child consistently puts away their toys without being reminded, you could offer them a small reward, such as extra playtime or a special treat. This shows them that their efforts are appreciated and encourages them to continue behaving in a positive manner. It's important to be consistent with your praise and rewards in order for them to be effective. Make sure you are acknowledging and rewarding positive behavior every time you see it, so your child knows what is expected of them. This consistency helps reinforce the idea that good behavior is valued and will lead to positive outcomes. By utilizing a combination of praise and rewards, you can encourage your child to exhibit positive behavior on a regular basis. This approach helps create a positive and supportive environment in which your child feels motivated to behave well. Remember, children thrive on positive reinforcement, so be sure to acknowledge and reward their good behavior whenever you can.
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