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Don't be afraid to ask for what you want in bed from "summary" of Guide to Getting it on by Paul Joannides

If you're hoping your partner will read your mind when it comes to sex, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. People are not mind-readers, especially when it comes to something as personal and nuanced as sex. So, if you want something in bed, you need to speak up and ask for it. The fear of rejection or embarrassment can often hold us back from expressing our desires in the bedroom. However, it's important to remember that your partner is not a mind reader and may not know what you want unless you tell them. By being open and honest about your desires, you can create a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experience for both you and your partner. Communication is key when it comes to a healthy and satisfying sex life. B...
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    Guide to Getting it on

    Paul Joannides

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