Choose forgiveness over bitterness from "summary" of For the Love by Jen Hatmaker
When someone hurts us, it's natural to feel bitter. The pain they caused can be overwhelming, and our initial reaction may be to hold onto that bitterness as a form of protection. But the truth is, bitterness only serves to poison our own hearts. It doesn't bring healing or resolution; it only keeps us stuck in a cycle of anger and resentment. Forgiveness, on the other hand, is a radical act of love and grace. It's choosing to release the grip that bitterness has on us and extending compassion to the person who hurt us. Forgiveness doesn't excuse the wrong that was done, but it frees us from being consumed by it. It allows us to move forward with a lightness in our hearts and a sense of peace. Choosing forgiveness over bitterness isn't easy. It requires a willingness to let go of our desire for reve...
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