Practice active listening and empathy from "summary" of Duct Tape Parenting by Vicki Hoefle
To truly connect with our children, we must practice active listening and empathy. This means setting aside our own agenda and truly tuning in to what our child is saying. It requires us to be fully present in the moment, without distractions or judgments clouding our perception. Active listening involves not only hearing the words that are spoken, but also understanding the emotions behind them. It is about being curious and compassionate, seeking to truly understand our child's perspective. Empathy goes hand in hand with active listening. It involves putting ourselves in our child's shoes, trying to see the world from their point of view. It requires us to set aside our own preconceived notions and biases, and instead approach the situation with an open heart and mind. Empathy allows us to connect on a deeper level with our child, fostering trust...
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