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Sexual response is not linear from "summary" of Come As You Are: Revised and Updated by Emily Nagoski

Our sexual response is not a mechanical, predictable process that moves step by step from arousal to orgasm. It is a dynamic and complex interplay of various factors that can vary greatly from person to person and even within the same person at different times. This means that there is no one-size-fits-all formula for how sexual desire, arousal, and satisfaction should unfold. Many people have been taught to believe that sexual response follows a linear path, where desire leads to arousal which leads to orgasm. However, this oversimplified model ignores the reality that our sexual experiences are influenced by a multitude of factors such as emotions, stress, past experiences, and physical sensations. These factors can interact in unique ways, creating a rich tapestry of responses that do not always conform to a linear progres...
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    Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

    Emily Nagoski

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