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Explore your sexual fantasies without guilt from "summary" of Come As You Are: Revised and Updated by Emily Nagoski
There's a common belief that if you have sexual fantasies, it means there's something wrong with you. That's not true. Fantasies are a normal and healthy part of sexuality. They can be a way to explore desires and turn-ons that we may not feel comfortable acting out in real life. It's important to remember that fantasy is not reality. Just because you have a particular fantasy doesn't mean you want to or should act it out. Fantasies can range from the mundane to the taboo, and they can be as unique and varied as the individuals who have them. Some people may feel guilty or ashamed about their fantasies, particularly if they involve things that society deems unacceptable. It's important to remember that fantasy is a private, personal space. As long as no one is being harmed or coerced, there's no reason to feel guilty about what turns you on in your own mind. Exploring your fantasies can help you understand your desires and preferences better. It can also be a way to connect with your partner and enhance your sexual relationship. By sharing your fantasies with a trusted partner, you can deepen your intimacy and create a safe space for open communication. It's important to approach this conversation with respect and understanding, and to be open to hearing and accepting your partner's fantasies as well. Remember that fantasies are just that – fantasies. They don't define who you are as a person, and they don't necessarily reflect your real-life desires or boundaries. It's okay to have fantasies that you would never want to act out in reality. By exploring your sexual fantasies without guilt, you can learn more about yourself and your sexuality, and have a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life.
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