Codependents often struggle with assertiveness from "summary" of Codependency For Dummies by Darlene Lancer
One common difficulty for codependents is asserting themselves. This issue often stems from a deep-seated fear of rejection or abandonment. Codependents may believe that if they express their needs and desires, they will be met with disapproval or pushback from others. This fear can be rooted in past experiences where assertiveness was met with negative consequences, such as conflict or emotional withdrawal. Codependents may also struggle with assertiveness due to a lack of self-worth. They may believe that their needs are not as important as those of others, leading them to prioritize the feelings and desires of others over their own. This self-sacrificing behavior can be reinforced by societal expectations that place a high value on being selfless and accommodating. Furthermore, codependents may have difficulty setting boundaries, which is essential for assertive communication. Boundaries help individuals define and protect t...
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