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Focus on what is within your control from "summary" of Breakfast with Seneca: A Stoic Guide to the Art of Living by David Fideler

When we face challenges or setbacks in life, it is natural to feel overwhelmed or anxious about the things that are outside of our control. We may find ourselves consumed by thoughts of what others think of us, or worrying about events that have not even happened yet. This tendency to fixate on external circumstances can lead to unnecessary stress and suffering. However, the Stoic philosophy teaches us to shift our focus to what is within our control. By directing our attention to our own thoughts, actions, and attitudes, we can cultivate a sense of inner peace and resilience. Instead of being swayed by external events, we can choose to respond with wisdom and virtue. This concept is beautifully articulated by the Stoic philosopher Seneca, who wrote, "You should always be asking yourself, 'Is this something that is, or is not, in my control?' And if it's not one of the things that you control, be ready with the reaction, 'Then it's none of my concern.'" By acknowledging the limits of our control and letting go of attachment to external outcomes, we can free ourselves from needless suffering. This does not mean that we should be passive or indifferent to the world around us. Rather, it is about recognizing the power of our own choices and focusing our energy on what truly matters. When we center our attention on what is within our control, we can approach life with a sense of clarity and purpose. We can take responsibility for our own well-being and cultivate a sense of inner strength that is not dependent on external circumstances. This shift in perspective allows us to navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience, knowing that we have the power to choose our own path.
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    Breakfast with Seneca: A Stoic Guide to the Art of Living

    David Fideler

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