We must be willing to enforce our boundaries from "summary" of Boundaries by Henry Cloud,John Townsend
Boundaries are essential for healthy relationships. They define who we are and what we are comfortable with in our interactions with others. Without boundaries, we can feel overwhelmed, taken advantage of, or just plain exhausted. However, setting boundaries is only the first step. We must also be willing to enforce them. Enforcing our boundaries means that we are willing to stand firm in what we have communicated to others. It involves saying “no” when necessary and following through with consequences if our boundaries are violated. This can be difficult, especially if we are used to putting others’ needs before our own or if we fear conflict or rejection. But enforcing boundaries is crucial for our well-being and the health of our relationships. When we fail to enforce our boundaries, we send mixed messages to others. They may not take us seriously or may continue to push our limits because they know we won’t hold them accountable. This can lead to resentment, frustration, and even more boundary violation...
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