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Avoid dominating the conversation and allow others to speak from "summary" of Better Small Talk by Patrick King

When it comes to engaging in small talk, one of the most important things to keep in mind is the art of conversation balance. It can be all too easy to get caught up in our own thoughts and opinions, dominating the discussion without giving others a chance to speak. This not only makes the conversation one-sided and uninteresting, but it can also leave others feeling ignored or undervalued. Allowing others to speak and share their thoughts is not only polite and respectful, but it also helps to create a more dynamic and engaging conversation. When you give others the opportunity to share their perspectives, you open up the discussion to new ideas and insights that you may not have considered on your own. This can lead to a more enriching and fulfilling exchange of ideas, making the conversation more enjoyable for ev...
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    Better Small Talk

    Patrick King

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