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Avoid Seeking Constant Approval from Your Child from "summary" of 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do by Amy Morin

It's natural to want your child to like you. After all, who doesn't want their child's approval and admiration? But seeking constant approval from your child can backfire. When you go out of your way to make sure your child is always happy with you, you might sacrifice your own values or beliefs in the process. Children need parents who are willing to set boundaries and enforce rules, even when it's not the popular choice. Constantly seeking approval from your child can lead to inconsistency in your parenting. One day you might say yes to something you normally wouldn't just to make your child happy, and the next day you might say no. This can confuse your child and make it harder for them to understand the rules. It's important for parents to be confident in their decisions ...
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    13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do

    Amy Morin

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