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Encouraging independence while maintaining connection is key from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
To truly support our children in becoming independent individuals, we must strike a delicate balance between granting them autonomy and maintaining a strong connection with them. Encouraging independence is crucial for their growth and development, as it allows them to explore the world around them, make decisions, and take responsibility for their actions. However, this process must be accompanied by a deep sense of connection between parent and child, as it is this bond that provides the foundation for their emotional well-being and security. When we focus solely on fostering independence without nurturing the connection, we risk alienating our children and creating distance between us. This can lead to feelings of isolation and insecurity in our children, as they may feel unsupported and disconnected from us. On the other hand, when we prioritize connection above all else and smother our children with excessive control and supervision, we hinder their ability to develop their own se...
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