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Understand the difference between controlling and disciplining from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan

Controlling is a concept that many parents are familiar with. It involves using power and authority to get children to do what we want them to do. It's about making sure they follow our rules, our schedules, and our expectations. It's about using threats, punishment, and rewards to manipulate their behavior. It's about being in charge and making sure they know it. Disciplining, on the other hand, is a different concept altogether. It's about teaching children how to behave, rather than simply making them behave. It's about setting limits and consequences, and then allowing children to experience the natural consequences of their actions. It's about helping them understand the reasons behind our rules and expectations, and helping them develop the self-control and self-discipline to follow them on their own. Controlling is about short-term compliance, while disciplining is about long-term character development. Controlling focuses on behavior, while disciplining focuses on the heart. Controlli...
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    1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents

    Thomas W. Phelan

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