Communicate your expectations clearly to your child from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
When it comes to raising children, setting clear expectations is crucial. Children thrive when they know exactly what is expected of them. This means being specific about what behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable. Vague instructions will only confuse your child and make it harder for them to meet your expectations. One way to communicate your expectations clearly is by using positive language. Instead of saying, "Don't make a mess," try saying, "Please keep your toys in the toy box." By framing your expectations in a positive way, you are guiding your child towards the behaviors you want to see. Consistency is key when it comes to setting expectations. If you allow your child to break the rules sometimes but not ot...
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