Avoid arguing with your child from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
Arguing with your child is a trap that many parents fall into. It's easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment and let your emotions take over. But arguing rarely leads to a resolution - instead, it often escalates the situation and leaves both parties feeling frustrated and misunderstood. When you engage in arguments with your child, you are inadvertently giving them power and control over the situation. By arguing back and forth, you are reinforcing negative behaviors and setting a precedent for future conflicts. It can also create a cycle of disrespect and defiance that is hard to break. Avoiding arguments doesn't mean ignoring your child or their feelings. It simply means setting boundaries and maintaining your authority as a parent. By c...
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