Be present and attentive to your baby's needs from "summary" of Your Self-Confident Baby by Magda Gerber,Allison Johnson
To truly connect with your baby, you must be present and attentive to their needs. This means being fully engaged with your baby in the moment, without distractions or preoccupations. When you are present with your baby, you are able to observe and understand their cues and signals more effectively. By being attentive to your baby's needs, you are able to respond promptly and appropriately, building a strong foundation of trust and security. Being present and attentive to your baby's needs involves tuning in to their nonverbal communication. Babies communicate through cries, facial expressions, body language, and sounds. By paying close attention to these cues, you are better able to understand what your baby is trying to communicate to you. This allows you to respond in a way that meets their needs and fosters a sense of security and attachment. It is important to approach your baby with a sense of openness and curiosity, rather than with preconceived ideas or assumptions. By being present and attentive, you can truly see and appreciate your baby for who they are, rather than projecting your own expectations onto them. This deep level of acceptance and understanding is essential for building a strong and trusting relationship with your baby. Being present and attentive to your baby's needs also means being responsive and available to them when they need you. This involves being attuned to your baby's rhythms and patterns, anticipating their needs, and meeting them with warmth and sensitivity. By consistently meeting your baby's needs in this way, you are building a sense of security and trust that will benefit them throughout their development.- Being present and attentive to your baby's needs is about building a deep and meaningful connection with your child. By being fully engaged with your baby, tuning in to their cues, approaching them with openness and curiosity, and being responsive to their needs, you are laying the foundation for a strong and secure attachment that will support their growth and development.
