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Listening builds trust and rapport from "summary" of You're Not Listening by Kate Murphy

Listening is more than just hearing words; it involves truly understanding and connecting with the speaker. When we actively listen to someone, we show that we value their thoughts and feelings, which in turn helps to build trust and rapport. It's about being present in the moment, setting aside distractions, and focusing on the speaker without judgment or interruption. By listening attentively, we signal to the speaker that their words matter to us, creating a safe space for them to express themselves honestly and openly. This kind of deep listening can foster a sense of connection and understanding between individuals, strengthening relationships and building a foundation of trust. When we listen with empathy and compassion, we demonstrate that we care about the other person's perspective, even if we may not agree with it. This kind of active listening can lead to greater mutual respect and appreciation, as both parties feel heard and valued in the conversation. In a world filled with constant distractions and competing voices, the act of truly listening to someone can be a rare and powerful gift. When we take the time to listen attentively, we show that we are invested in the relationship and committed to understanding the other person's point of view. This kind of genuine listening can help to bridge divides, resolve conflicts, and strengthen bonds between individuals.
  1. Listening is a way to honor and validate the experiences and emotions of others, creating a space for authentic communication and connection. By practicing active listening, we can cultivate trust and rapport in our relationships, paving the way for deeper understanding and meaningful interactions.
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You're Not Listening

Kate Murphy

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