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Social media can create unrealistic expectations and comparisons from "summary" of Wow, No Thank You. by Samantha Irby

In the vast world of social media, it's easy to get sucked into a whirlpool of comparison and self-doubt. When you're scrolling through perfectly curated Instagram feeds or reading about people's seemingly flawless lives on Facebook, it's hard not to feel like you're falling short in some way. These platforms are designed to showcase the highlight reels of people's lives, leaving out the messy, unglamorous parts that make us human. As Samantha Irby points out in her book 'Wow, No Thank You.', social media can create unrealistic expectations that can be damaging to our mental health. We see influencers and celebrities living seemingly perfect lives, jet-setting around the world, wearing designer clothes, and dining at fancy restaurants. It's easy to start comparing our own lives to these carefully crafted images and feeling inadequate in comparison. The problem with social media is that it's not an accurate representation of reality. People only show the parts of their lives that they want others to see, leaving out the struggles, insecurities, and failures that are just as much a part of the human experience. When we constantly compare ourselves to these idealized versions of others, we set ourselves up for disappointment and self-criticism. Irby highlights how social media can create a never-ending cycle of comparison and self-doubt. We see someone else's perfectly decorated home or beautifully plated meal and immediately start questioning our own choices and accomplishments. It's a toxic cycle that can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. In a world where likes and followers hold so much importance, it's crucial to remember that social media is not a true reflection of reality. It's a curated version of people's lives, carefully crafted to present a certain image. By being mindful of this fact and taking breaks from social media when needed, we can protect our mental well-being and focus on living our own authentic lives, rather than comparing ourselves to others.
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    Wow, No Thank You.

    Samantha Irby

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