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Strive for independence from "summary" of Women with Controlling Partners by Carol A Lambert
To strive for independence is to embrace the idea that you are capable of standing on your own two feet, both emotionally and practically. It means recognizing your own worth and power, and not allowing yourself to be defined or controlled by someone else. It involves taking steps to assert your own autonomy and make decisions that are in your best interest, rather than simply following the desires or demands of another person. This concept is particularly important for women who find themselves in relationships with controlling partners, as these individuals often seek to undermine their partner's sense of independence and self-worth. By striving for independence, women can begin to push back against this dynamic and reclaim their own agency and sense of self. To achieve independence, women must first work to identify and challenge the beliefs and behaviors that have kept them feeling dependent on their partners. This may involve examining the ways in which they have internalized messages of inferiority or powerlessness, and developing a more positive and self-affirming sense of themselves. Practical steps towards independence may include setting boundaries with a controlling partner, asserting one's own needs and desires, and making decisions that prioritize one's own well-being. It may also involve seeking support from friends, family, or professionals who can help them navigate the process of asserting their independence and developing a sense of autonomy.- Striving for independence is an ongoing process that requires courage, resilience, and a willingness to challenge the status quo. By taking steps towards autonomy and self-determination, women can begin to break free from the cycle of control and manipulation that characterizes many controlling relationships, and start to build a life that is truly their own.
