Challenge negative beliefs about yourself from "summary" of Women with Controlling Partners by Carol A Lambert
When you are in a controlling relationship, it is common to internalize negative beliefs about yourself. These beliefs may have been planted and nurtured by your partner over time, gradually eroding your self-esteem and confidence. You may start to believe that you are unworthy, incompetent, or deserving of mistreatment. These beliefs can be incredibly damaging, shaping how you see yourself and influencing your choices and actions.
Challenging these negative beliefs is a crucial step in breaking free from the cycle of control and abuse. It requires a willingness to question and confront the beliefs that have been ingrained in your mind. This process can be challenging and may bring up feelings of discomfort or resistance. However, by facing these beliefs head-on, you can begin to dismantle the toxic narratives that have been holding you back.
One way to challenge negative beliefs about yourself is to start paying attention to your inner dialogue. Notice the thoughts that run through your mind on a daily basis and identify any patterns of self-criticism or self-doubt. Ask yourself where these beliefs come from and whether they are based on reality or distorted perceptions. By shining a light on these beliefs, you can start to see them for what they truly are - harmful distortions of the truth.
It can also be helpful to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or a therapist. Talking about your beliefs with others can provide a fresh perspective and help you gain insight into the ways in which your partner's control has influenced your self-image. Others may be able to offer reassurance, encouragement, and validation, helping you see your worth and potential more clearly.
As you work to challenge negative beliefs about yourself, be patient and compassionate with yourself. It is not easy to uproot deeply ingrained beliefs, especially ones that have been reinforced by a controlling partner. Remember that change takes time and effort, and that setbacks are a natural part of the process. By persisting in your efforts and remaining committed to your own growth and healing, you can begin to reclaim your sense of self-worth and autonomy.
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