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Embracing differences can lead to growth in the relationship from "summary" of Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin
When we enter into a relationship, we often believe that the other person should be just like us. We want them to share our interests, our beliefs, and our way of doing things. However, this attitude can lead to a stagnant relationship where both parties are not growing or expanding their horizons. It is important to recognize that differences between partners can actually be a source of growth and learning in the relationship. By embracing the differences between you and your partner, you are opening yourself up to new experiences and perspectives that you may not have encountered otherwise. These differences can challenge you to step out of your comfort zone and see the world from a different point of view. This can lead to personal growth as you learn to be more open-minded and flexible in your thinking. Moreover, when you embrace your partner's differences, you are showing them that you accept and love them for who they are. This can create a sense of safety and trust in the relationship, as both partners feel free to express themselves without fear of judgment or rejection. This emotional connection can deepen the bond between you and your partner, leading to a more fulfilling and intimate relationship.- And that is what makes relationships so interesting and rewarding. Instead of trying to change your partner to fit your ideal image, try to appreciate and celebrate their unique qualities. By doing so, you are not only enriching your own life, but also nurturing the growth and development of your relationship. Embracing differences can ultimately lead to a stronger, more resilient partnership that can weather any storm.
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