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Men use sex to feel desired and powerful from "summary" of Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love by Barbara Pease,Allan Pease

The desire to feel desired and powerful is a primal instinct for men. From a young age, boys are taught that their worth is tied to their ability to attract females. This idea is reinforced through societal norms and expectations, leading men to believe that their sexual prowess is a reflection of their masculinity. For men, sex is not just about physical pleasure; it is a way to validate their self-worth and boost their ego. When a man engages in sexual activity, he feels desired and in control, which gives him a sense of power. This feeling of power is intoxicating and addictive, driving men to seek out sexual encounters to affirm their masculinity. In a world where men are often expected to be strong and dominant, sex becomes a way for them to assert their masculinity and prove their worth. The ability to attract a sexual partner is seen as a sign of success and virility, further reinforcing the idea that sex equals power for men. Additionally, the act of sex itself can be a source of validation for men. The physical act of intimacy and connection with another person can make men feel desired and wanted, fulfilling their deep-seated need for validation and approval.
  1. The concept that "men use sex to feel desired and powerful" is deeply ingrained in our society and has a significant impact on male behavior and attitudes towards sex. For men, sex is not just a physical act, but a way to fulfill their need for validation and boost their sense of power and masculinity.
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Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love

Barbara Pease

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