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Listening skills vary between genders from "summary" of Why men don't listen and women can't read maps by Allan Pease,Barbara Pease

According to the research presented in "Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps," it is clear that there are distinct differences in how men and women approach listening. These differences are not merely stereotypes, but rather rooted in biological and evolutionary factors that have shaped the communication styles of each gender. Men are found to be more linear and task-oriented listeners, meaning they focus on the content of the message and are more problem-solving oriented. They tend to listen with the intention of finding a solution or taking action, often tuning out non-essential information in the process. This could be attributed to their hunter-gatherer instincts, where they needed to focus on the task at hand to ensure survival. On the other hand, women are described as holistic listeners, who take in the entire message along with the emotions and context surrounding it. They are more empathetic and nurturing in their listening approach, seeking to establish...
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    Why men don't listen and women can't read maps

    Allan Pease

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