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Men should avoid being defensive and listen with an open mind from "summary" of What Women Want Men to Know by Barbara De Angelis

Men often have a tendency to become defensive when faced with criticism or feedback from women. They may feel the need to protect themselves or prove their point, which can lead to conflict and misunderstanding. However, it is crucial for men to understand that being defensive only serves to shut down communication and hinder the possibility of resolving issues. Instead of reacting defensively, men should strive to listen with an open mind when women express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns. This means truly paying attention to what is being said without immediately jumping to conclusions or making excuses. By actively listening and showing empathy, men can demonstrate that they value the other person's perspective and are willing to engage in meaningful dialogue. Listening with an open mind also involves setting aside preconceived notions and biases that may cloud judgment. It requires a willingness to consider different viewpoints and explore new ideas, even if they challenge one's beliefs. By approaching conversations with curiosity and a willingness to learn, men can foster a deeper understanding of women's experiences and perspectives. Moreover, listening with an open mind allows men to cultivate stronger connections and build trust with women. When women feel heard and understood, they are more likely to feel valued and respected in the relationship. This, in turn, can lead to improved communication, greater emotional intimacy, and a more harmonious partnership.
  1. The ability to listen with an open mind is a fundamental skill that can help men navigate their relationships with women more effectively. By avoiding defensiveness and practicing active listening, men can create a foundation of trust, respect, and understanding that is essential for healthy and fulfilling relationships.
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What Women Want Men to Know

Barbara De Angelis

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