Adjusting expectations during difficult times from "summary" of The Wonder Weeks by Frans X. Plooij,Hetty van de Rijt,Xaviera Plas
During difficult times, it is important for parents to adjust their expectations when it comes to their baby’s behavior and development. It is natural for parents to want their baby to be happy and content all the time, but this is not always possible. Babies go through developmental leaps and growth spurts that can make them fussy, clingy, and difficult to soothe. During these times, it is important for parents to be patient and understanding, and to realize that their baby’s behavior is temporary and will pass. By adjusting their expectations, parents can reduce their stress and frustration when their baby is going through a difficult period. Instead of expecting their baby to be happy and easygoing all the time, parents can remind themselves that it is normal for babies to have fussy periods and that this is just a phase. By accepting this reality, parents can approach their baby’s difficult times with more patience and empathy, which can help both parent and baby get through the tough times more easily. It is also important for parents to take care of themselves during these difficult times. When a baby is going through a fussy period, it can be exhausting for parents to deal with the constant crying and need for attention. Parents need to remember to take breaks when they can, ask for help from friends and family, and practice self-care to ensure that they are able to cope with the challenges of parenting during difficult times.- Adjusting expectations during difficult times is about being realistic about what to expect from your baby and yourself. By understanding that difficult periods are a normal part of a baby’s development, parents can approach these times with more patience and grace. This can help parents navigate the challenges of parenting with more ease and confidence, and ensure that both parent and baby come out of the difficult times stronger and more resilient.
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