Boys are taught to repress emotions from "summary" of The Will to Change by bell hooks
In our society, from a very young age, boys are taught that expressing emotions is a sign of weakness. They are told to "man up" or "be a man" whenever they show vulnerability or sensitivity. This conditioning starts early, often before boys even have a chance to understand what emotions are or how to express them. Boys are discouraged from crying, from showing fear or sadness. They are taught that real men don't let their emotions show, that they should be strong and stoic at all times. This denial of emotional expression cuts boys off from a vital part of themselves, leading to a sense of disconnection and alienation. This repression of emotions has far-reaching consequences. It can result in a lack of empathy, an inability to form deep and meaningful connections with others. It can lead to violence, as boys act out their frustration and anger in destructive ways. It can also contribute to...
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