Both partners play a role in rebuilding trust from "summary" of The State of Affairs by Esther Perel
Rebuilding trust after an affair is not solely the responsibility of the offending partner. Both partners must actively engage in the process in order to heal and move forward. It is a collaborative effort that requires mutual understanding, empathy, and commitment. The partner who has been cheated on may feel a range of emotions, from anger and sadness to confusion and disbelief. It is essential for them to express these feelings openly and honestly, without fear of judgment or retaliation. This vulnerability is necessary for rebuilding trust, as it allows for true emotional connection and healing to take place. The offending partner must also take responsibility for their actions and show genuine remorse for the pain they have caused. This involves being transparent about their intentions, action...
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