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Recognizing bids for connection is key in a marriage from "summary" of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD,Nan Silver
Recognizing bids for connection is crucial in a marriage. When a partner makes a bid for connection, it is an opportunity to turn towards them and strengthen the bond between you. Bids can be obvious, such as a direct question or request for attention, but they can also be subtle gestures or comments that invite engagement. Responding to bids for connection is essential for building a strong and healthy relationship. It shows your partner that you are present and attentive, and that you value their attempts to connect with you. Ignoring bids or responding negatively can create distance and lead to feelings of rejection or resentment. It is important to be aware of your partner's bids for connection and to respond with kindness and positivity. This can help to foster a sense of emotional intimacy and security in the relationship. By recognizing and responding to bids for connection, you can strengthen your bond with your partner and create a more satisfying and fulfilling marriage. When you are attuned to your partner's bids for connection, you are more likely to feel loved and supported in the relationship. This can lead to greater trust, intimacy, and happiness between you and your partner. By making an effort to recognize and respond to bids for connection, you can create a strong foundation for a successful and lasting marriage.
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