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Accept influence from each other from "summary" of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, Ph.D.

Accepting influence from each other is a crucial aspect of a successful marriage. It means being open to the thoughts, feelings, and opinions of your partner, and being willing to consider their perspective when making decisions or resolving conflicts. When partners are able to accept influence from each other, they demonstrate respect for each other's views and show that they value each other's input. This builds a sense of teamwork and unity in the relationship, as both partners feel heard and understood. Accepting influence also involves being willing to compromise and find solutions that work for both partners, rather than insisting on getting your own way all the time. This requires a willingness to let go of the need to always be right and to prioritize the well-being of the relationship over individual desires. In order to accept influence from each other, it is important to practice active listening and empathy. This means truly listening to your partner's perspective without interrupting or dismissing their feelings, and trying to see things from their point of view. Accepting influence is not about giving in or losing yourself in the relationship, but about finding a balance between maintaining your own identity and being willing to consider and incorporate your partner's needs and desires. It is about creating a partnership where both partners feel valued, respected, and supported. By accepting influence from each other, couples can cultivate a strong sense of connection, trust, and intimacy in their relationship. It is a key principle for building a healthy and fulfilling marriage that can withstand the challenges and conflicts that inevitably arise in any long-term partnership.
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    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    John Gottman, Ph.D.

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