Achieve more meaningful relationships from "summary" of The Selfish Romantic by Michelle Elman
Achieving meaningful relationships can be difficult, but it is possible to develop strong connections with those around us. By understanding the power of communication and taking the time to nurture relationships, we can build strong, lasting connections with the people we care about.- A meaningful relationship begins with mutual trust and respect. Taking the time to get to know another person over a period of time can help strengthen this bond.
- Having honest conversations about how we are feeling and what we need from a relationship is essential to develop deeper connection.
- Nurturing the relationship through small acts of kindness, like surprise gifts or thoughtful gestures, help reinforce your commitment to each other.
- Scheduling any needed break-time or take space when emotions become overwhelming is important for staying emotionally connected.
- Setting boundaries on how far you are willing to go, without compromising on your beliefs or values, is important to creating strong yet easy going relationships.
- Compromising to meet both needs equally is a key factor in forming healthy relationships.
- Connect beyond shared interests with activities stimulating creative collaboration and self discovery.
- Allow yourself to be vulnerable by making it safe enough to express yourself without fear of judgment or misunderstanding.
- Making an effort to be present and available for one another in the moment shows that we value our relationship together.
- Providing emotional support and understanding, even through difficult times, demonstrates the worth of the relationship.
