Utilize openended questions to encourage children to express themselves from "summary" of The Secret Language of Children by Lawrence E. Shapiro
When speaking with children, it is essential to use open-ended questions to help them express themselves fully. These types of questions encourage children to share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences in their own words, rather than simply providing a yes or no answer. By asking open-ended questions, you allow children the space to explore their thoughts and emotions more deeply. This can lead to richer conversations and a better understanding of how the child is truly feeling. Open-ended questions are a powerful tool for communication because they invite children to think critically and reflect on their experiences. Instead of simply asking, "Did you have fun at school today?" try asking, "What was the best part of your day at school?" This prompts the child to consider specific details and share their unique perspective. By asking open-ended questions, you can gain insight into the child's interests, concerns, and experiences, helping you to better connect with them and build a strong relationship. It is important to remember that children may not always have the words to express themselves fully. By using open-ended questions, you are giving them the opportunity to practice articulating their thou...
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