Love is not about controlling others, but about allowing them to be themselves from "summary" of The Power of Love by Osho
Love is not a prison; it is freedom. It is not meant to confine others within the boundaries of our desires and expectations, but to give them the space to blossom into their true selves. When we try to control those we love, we are not truly loving them. We are merely trying to shape them into our image of what we think they should be. True love is about acceptance, not manipulation. It is about celebrating the uniqueness of each individual, rather than trying to mold them into a carbon copy of ourselves. When we allow others to be themselves, we are honoring their autonomy and their right to live authentically. Love is not possessive; it is liberating. It does not seek to dominate or dictate, but to support and encourage. When we love someone, we should want what is best for them, even if it means letting them go their own way. This is the true test of love – can we let go of our own ego and desires in order to allow the other person to flourish? When we love without conditions, without expectations, we are practicing the purest form of love. We are giving without wanting anything in return, simply because we want the other person to be happy and fulfilled. This kind of love is rare, but it is also the most powerful force in the world. So let us remember that love is not about controlling others, but about allowing them to be themselves. Let us give our loved ones the space they need to grow and evolve, without trying to impose our will upon them. In doing so, we will not only set them free, but we will also set ourselves free from the burden of trying to shape the world to our liking. Love is about letting go, trusting in the inherent goodness of others, and allowing them to shine in their own unique way.
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