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Break free from rigid notions of masculinity and machismo from "summary" of The New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld

The idea is to let go of the rigid ideas we've been taught about what it means to be a man. These notions have been around for a long time, passed down from generation to generation. They tell us that men should be strong, tough, and in control at all times. They discourage vulnerability, sensitivity, and emotions as signs of weakness. This traditional view of masculinity can be harmful, leading men to suppress their feelings and struggle with intimacy in their relationships. Breaking free from these limitations allows men to be more authentic and true to themselves. It means embracing a wider range of emotions and qualities that are often associated with femininity. This includes being able to express vulnerability, empathy, and compassion. It means letting go of the need to always be in charge and allowing oneself to be open and receptive to others. This shift can be empowering, leading to more fulfilling relationships and a deeper sense of self-acceptance. It challenges the narrow definition of what it means to be a man and encourages men to explore their identities beyond traditional stereotypes. By letting go of the pressure to conform to outdated expectations, men can find new freedom in being themselves.
  1. The goal is to create a more inclusive and accepting society where individuals are free to express themselves authentically, regardless of gender norms. It's about recognizing that there is no one right way to be a man and that everyone deserves the freedom to define themselves on their own terms. Breaking free from rigid notions of masculinity and machismo is not about rejecting masculinity altogether, but rather expanding our understanding of what it means to be a man in today's world.
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The New Male Sexuality

Bernie Zilbergeld

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