Accepting oneself is a key to happiness from "summary" of The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
In life, we are often consumed by the idea of who we should be, rather than accepting who we truly are. We constantly measure ourselves against an idealized version of ourselves, seeking perfection and validation from others. This endless cycle of comparison and self-criticism can lead to a profound sense of unhappiness and dissatisfaction. The protagonist of 'The Midnight Library' grapples with this very struggle. She is plagued by regrets and doubts, constantly questioning her choices and wondering if she could have lived a better life. It is only when she enters the Midnight Library, a place between life and death, that she begins to realize the importance of self-acceptance. Through her journey of exploring different versions of her life, she comes to understand that happiness is not found in living up to external expectations or trying to be someone she is not. True happiness lies in embracing her true self, flaws and all, and finding contentment in the present moment. It is about letting go of the burden of who she thinks she should be, and accepting who she is with compassion and understanding. As she learns to accept herself fully, she discovers a newfound sense of peace and fulfillment. She realizes that she is worthy of love and happiness just as she is, and that she does not need to prove herself to anyone. This acceptance of herself allows her to let go of the past and live authentically in the present, free from the constraints of judgment and comparison.- The protagonist comes to understand that accepting oneself is not a one-time achievement, but an ongoing practice of self-love and compassion. It is a journey of self-discovery and growth, where she learns to trust her instincts, honor her desires, and embrace her unique gifts and talents. In doing so, she finds that true happiness comes from within, and that it is only by accepting herself that she can truly live a fulfilling and meaningful life.
