Selflove is essential for a healthy relationship from "summary" of The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz,Janet Mills
In order to truly love someone else, we must first learn to love ourselves. This concept may seem simple, but it is profound in its implications for our relationships. When we lack self-love, we often look to others to fill the void within us. We seek validation and approval from our partners, hoping that they will make us feel whole and complete. However, this approach is ultimately flawed, as no one else can ever truly fulfill us in the way that we can fulfill ourselves. When we practice self-love, we are able to approach relationships from a place of wholeness and abundance. We are not seeking to extract love from our partners, but rather to share the love that already exists within us. This shift in mindset transforms the dynamics of our relationships, allowing us to give and receive love freely and unconditionally. We are no longer dependent on our partners for our sense of self-worth, but rather see them as equals with whom we can share our love and joy. Self-love also enables us to set healthy boundaries in our relationships. When we value ourselves and our own well-being, we are better able to communicate our needs and expectations to our partners. We are not afraid to speak up when something is bothering us, or to walk away from a relationship that is no longer serving us. This sense of self-respect and self-worth is essential for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. In the end, self-love is the foundation upon which all healthy relationships are built. Without it, we are at risk of becoming dependent, needy, and insecure in our relationships. By cultivating a deep sense of self-love, we are able to approach our relationships with confidence, authenticity, and compassion. Only when we love ourselves can we truly love others in a way that is sustainable and fulfilling.
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