Focus on the wellbeing and pleasure of both partners from "summary" of The Loving Dominant by John Warren,Libby Warren
It is of utmost importance for a Dominant to always keep in mind the wellbeing and pleasure of both partners in any kind of power exchange relationship. This principle should guide every action and decision made by the Dominant throughout the course of the relationship. By prioritizing the physical and emotional wellbeing of both partners, the Dominant demonstrates care, respect, and responsibility towards their submissive. This not only fosters trust and intimacy but also creates a safe and nurturing environment for both individuals to explore and grow. When a Dominant focuses on the pleasure of both partners, they show a deep understanding and appreciation for the desires and needs of their submissive. This involves active communication, empathy, and a willingness to listen and learn from their partner. By actively seeki...Similar Posts
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