Children need support, not judgment from "summary" of The Explosive Child by Ross W. Greene, PhD
When a child is struggling with behavioral challenges, it can be all too easy to fall into the trap of judgment. It's natural to want to assign blame or shame when things aren't going smoothly. But what kids really need in these moments is support - not judgment. By offering understanding and assistance rather than criticism and punishment, we can help our children grow and thrive. When we judge a child for their behavior, we are essentially telling them that they are bad or wrong. This can be damaging to their self-esteem and can actually make the problem behavior worse. On the other hand, when we show support and understanding, we are sending the message that we care about them and want to help them succeed. Supporting a child means taking the time to understand the underlying r...
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